How to be FAIR & NICE even while Fighting with your spouse? Why are you really upset about? Is it the bread that he/she had to buy, and it was not done or its the frustration of having to do everything by yourself? Make sure you know what you are arguing about. Be clear in what you are saying, if not the argument can go all over the place. 2. One issue at a time! Discussing one issue can move to talking about all the years in the past…