How to be FAIR & NICE even while Fighting with your spouse?
- Why are you really upset about? Is it the bread that he/she had to buy, and it was not done or its the frustration of having to do everything by yourself? Make sure you know what you are arguing about. Be clear in what you are saying, if not the argument can go all over the place.
3. Degrading language will just hurt your partner. Instead of the action being discussed, we will be name – calling. swearing. Nothing positive will come out of that.
4. ‘I’ statements. Take responsibility of what you are feeling. I feel angry when you do not help me out while doing the dishes, I feel anxious when you do not come back home early. When we take responsibility, we stay away from blaming the other person.
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